How to Have an Attractive Personality

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Having a good personality is more important than being good looking. Showing a good personality is important for making friends and having long-term relationships. To be more likable, try to talk in a natural way, be funny, and believe in yourself. These characteristics make people look up to and be interested in you.

I. Communication

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1. Pay
 attention: 
Many people don't think about listening as an important quality these days. Instead of using your phone or thinking about food, focus on listening to the other person. Let them know you are paying attention and interested by making a comment about the story or asking questions.at you are paying attention and interested by making comments or asking questions about the story.

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2. Be honest when you speak: No one likes to be tricked. Be honest with people. If you can't make a promise, it's better to tell the truth instead of canceling at the last minute. When someone wants to know what you think, tell the truth.

  • Being honest is not the same as being rude. For example, if you don't like your friend's shirt and they ask you about it, say "I think you look good in blue instead" instead of saying "I hate it, it's ugly".
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3. Understand "how" and "what.":
How you communicate is possibly more essential than what you communicate. If you try to say something nice to someone, but they think you're being sarcastic, your nice words won't matter to them. Pay attention to how you talk. If you see that people often misunderstand what you say, you can try to speak in a different way. Get your friends to tell you how you are acting.

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4. Assist others in talking to each other: Get a group of people to have a fun gathering. It can be as easy as a meeting at the park, or as fancy as a fancy dinner party. Either way, it tells them that you are kind and want to make new friends.

II. Humor

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1. Laugh If you do something funny: just laugh at yourself instead of feeling bad. It means you feel good about yourself. Having a sense of humor makes someone more fun and enjoyable to be around.
  • Don't forget that it's important to know when it's okay to be funny. It's good for getting people comfortable or relaxing, but don't make inappropriate jokes during a serious talk.
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2. Get excited about everything:
 Even if something makes you a little uneasy, face it with a smile, an open mind, and a sense of humor. Not every day will be great, but having a positive attitude can help you achieve your goals. When you behave like this, others will enjoy being with you.

3. Make sure to laugh a lot: If you want to be more appealing, just laughing at yourself isn't enough. If you like making people laugh and think laughter is important, you will be a happier person.
  •  A good idea to help you laugh more (and tell others to do the same) is to get jokes sent to your phone or email every day. Choose a time of day when you start to feel tired.

III. Confidence

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1. Believe in yourself: when you talk and behave. Always speak your mind, be ready to take chances, and be okay with admitting when you're wrong, regardless of what others might think. Doing this shows that you believe in yourself. This makes you more likable because it shows you are confident and that makes others feel at ease around you.
  • It's important to ask questions to feel more confident. The more you learn, the more confident you'll be when talking about things. Don't be scared to ask questions.
  • Don't compare yourself to others to stop feeling unsure about yourself.
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2. Believe in your step:
and your body. Wearing the right clothes and standing straight make you look confident. You don't need to have a "perfect body" to feel good about it. People will like you more if you dress nicely, have self-respect, and act confidently.
  • If you want to feel better about yourself, put sticky notes on your mirror that remind you of the parts of your body you like. Pay attention to these things instead of the things that make you feel unsure about yourself.
3. Understand the difference between being self-assured and being arrogant. Being sure of yourself is attractive, but being too sure of yourself is unpleasant. People won't like you if you only care about yourself. One way to prevent this is to remember to say nice things to others. Every day, try to compliment 5 people. They could be people we don't know, people we work with, or people we are friends with. In any case, this will help you stay calm and steady.

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